LOVE Vs INFATUATION

Love and Infatuation

Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them."

Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.

Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you check.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart. Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning.

The secret of our being is not only to live but to have something to live for.

Find Out If You Are In Love Or Not?

Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing,
And your voice caught within your chest?
It isn't Love, it's Like.

You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?
It isn't Love, it's Lust.

Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't Love, it's Luck
.
Do you want them because you know they're there?
It isn't Love, it's Loneliness.

Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't Love, it's Loyalty.

Do you stay for their confessions of Love,
because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't Love, it's Pity.

Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
It isn't Love, it's being Unconfident.

Do you belong to them because their sight
makes your heart skip a beat?
It isn't Love, it's Infatuation.

Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't Love, it's Friendship.

Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
It isn't Love, it's a Lie.

Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?
It isn't Love, it's Charity.

Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's Love.

Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
Then it's Love.

Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's Love.

Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
Then it's Love.

Do their eyes see your true heart,
and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's Love.

But do you stay because a blinding,
incomprehensible mix of pain and elation pulls you close and holds you?
Then it's Love.

Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
Then it's Love.

Now, if Love is painful, and tortures us,
so, why do we Love?
Why is it all we search for in life?
This pain, this agony?
Why is it all we long for?
This torture, this powerful death of self?
Why?
Because it's...
Love

Tips that Could Help Your Relationship

WHAT A LADY WANTS FROM HER MAN

1-Talk to her
2-Share secrets With Her
3-Laugh with her
4-let her be with you when
you're with your friends
5-Dont Ever let your Friends Take her place.
6-Make her know She is special
6-Hug her
7-Hold her
8-invite her somewhere,take her out and spend Quality time with her.
9-Teach her some of the things you need her to know.
10-Be her best friend in the world,
her lover and trust her completely.

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11.-Always smile with her and correct her instantly
when she does something wrong
12-Take pictures with her and dont be shy to introduce her
as your girl.
13-Pull her onto your lap and believe me , Ladies love it when their man
plays with them.
14-when she says she loves you more,
deny it. fight back
15-when her friends say i love her
more than you, deny it. fight back
and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends.
it makes her feel loved.


Are you thinking about someone Right now?

16-Always hug her and say i love you when you see or talk 2 her
17-Kiss her unexpectedly, it makes her
believe you have missed her
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
19-Tell her shes beautiful always and be sincere with her!
20-Always remind her of how you feel about her!


......you need to show her you mean it too


21-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. you buy HER stuff.
22-Tell her what feels good and what you love
the most about her
23-Make her Know she is loved and be convinced about it.
24-Buy her stuff even the smallest thing like
Candy, Chocolate e.t.c
we might deny it but we acutally like it
and kinda want our man to get us things


26-Don't ever lie to her, let her trust you absolutely.
27-Dont cheat on her
28-Take her anywhere she wants
Take her for long walks at night.
29-Always call and send her messages,
tell her to have to have a
good day, and how much you miss and love her
Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
30-Be there for her when ever
she needs you, & even when
she doesn't need you, just be there
so she'll know that she can always count on you


31. Hold her close at all times and let be your Companion.
32. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
33. Kiss her on the cheek and forehead.
(it will give her the hint that you want to kiss then).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her
and then she will automatically put her
head on your shoulder, then lean in
and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her


Remember this next time you are with her


36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other take her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible


MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHE IS LOVED


Always Remind her how much you love her.

you'll never know when she needs just a little more love


BEING A REAL BOYFRIEND.

If you truly love your girl, you have to believe and know that she is the most important person in the world to you. She is what makes your world go round. You have to let her know that.

She isn't the most important "thing", shes your most important person in the world. Your girlfriend is not an object to be won, to have to use, she is a person in your life who is to be loved and treated as so.

If you treat her like she is the most important thing in the world, then you dont need any dating tips.