Every woman has the ability to make any man fall in love with her.Relationships are what we make of it,as the saying goes"as u lay your bed,so you will lay on it".
Today we are going to be looking at the power of a woman in any relationship,her role in keeping that relationship and as a woman,i am obliged to say this, we have more work to do in any relationship be it dating, marriage or just a mere friendship.
When a man sees a lady, there is always something that strikes the cord in him, it may be the way u are dressed, the way u did your nails or the way u stood and spoke to him,it could be a number of things, some very insignificant but yet, he is chasing after you like a cat chasing a mouse.
Now, when he is done chasing and u agree to date or be in a relationship, he falls back to his seat, it is now your duty as a woman to keep him interested in you. We as women have great powers but most of us don't even know it, we let the men do all the work, let them make all the decisions,let them decide what should happen in our relationship and when that happens, we loss them to the next girl with the same thing that attracted you to him in the first place.
To keep a man in a relationship is not as difficult as we make it, it requires patience, Understanding,Tolerance and most of all Compromise. "What u don't know its worth u don't appreciate", so when u don't know the kind of Man u are with, u don't know his worth and then u loss him and u cry meanwhile it was actually your fault.
When u dont know what a man likes abt you, why he is attracted to you,what he likes about you, why he behaves the way he behaves at certain times,u cant tolerate his flaws, you are not ready to be his helpmate, his friend then my dear, you are headed for a break up. Like i usually say, "a man is a Big baby" and as a baby would , they need attention too,need you to notice when something is wrong even when they don't show it, when they are in a foul mood,need you to listen to them even when you don't understand a word they are saying, they need us to be there for them just like their Mums.
Ever wonder why every man wants to marry a woman like his Mum? because she knows hims, sees through his pains, pets him and take very good care of him,knows when he is sad,worried and she shares in all of it,that is all they want from us, for us to be a part of life,share in pains,joy,laughter and misfortunes,feel everything he feels like it happened to you and then gradually help him through it and be better than his mum because we have an added advantage......SEX.
This is all it takes to keep a relationship, every woman has the ability to make any man fall in love with her. Its not an easy task but if the guy is worth go the extra mile and you will see him all over you.
..................... Love is the Ultimate...............
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